Eyelash Answers

I have red hair & I have taken after my mom with the light facial features & so I have very light eyelashes & eyebrows. I have to pencil my eyebrows in with a pencil every morning as well as curling & putting mascara on. I am very self conscious about myself when I am not wearing makeup. I will acutally go to the point where I will not leave the house without makeup on. I want to be able to accept myself when I have no makeup on but I don’t feel like that. I love to go swimming, not all the time mind you but I don’t take my makeup off. So I can’t do all the fun things that I want to do. I wish that I had darker features sometimes, but I realize that only we see our downfalls, unless we point them out to other people. I just wish there was someone out there that could dye them or something & make it look natural but cheap & afforable at the same time. Can anyone help me or give me advice…??