Eyelash Answers

I went to the salon today to get eyelash extensions. I waited an hour for the lady to even show up. After she finished the lashes I told her they were too long, so she trimmed them really poorly. Then they just looked horrible, so I had her remove them. When she took them off all my natural lashes had been cut off!!! I was & am very upset & disappointed.
but here is my real question…when I came home from the salon all upset, all my bf said was “i told you not to go” that made me feel worse. I don’t feel pretty at all. & he is making me feel worse by saying hurtful stuff & ignoring me while i’m sad. I went there to look better, not worse. so I feel like my pride has been hurt…i’m upset & he is not comforting me in the way I wish he would. what should I do????